If the thought of “too close, too crowded, too clingy” makes your chest tighten, it might be a tell-tale sign of enmeshment somewhere in your past. Add to that a pounding heart and slight difficulty breathing…and oh, my!…a full-blown fear of engulfment may be lurking beneath your yellow brick road. Call me crazy…but I’m pretty sure I know what I’m talking about. And if you’ll give me just a minute to catch my breath…I’ll be more than happy to explain.